Vacaciones De Familia (Family Vacation)
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Uncle Donald
I have no family with me in the Dominican Republic, so when my Uncle Donald took a vacation in Puerta Plata with his girlfriend, there was no way I was going to let him come here without spending some time with him. He turned 89 recently, and, as my mother’s last surviving sibling, he is special to me.
I made the four-hour trek to Puerta Plata by bus, but it is a pleasant ride over the mountains, though the bus strained several times in its ascent. As I descended into Puerto Plata, I am reminded of Atlantic City and the tourist Mecca I fear Cabrera could become.
Don’t get me wrong. The Dominican Republic’s top industry is tourism so the dollars, euros and yen visitors bring into the country are essential to the economy. But Puerta Plata is a tourist destination and operates like any other tourist location in the world – primarily with the goal of separating you from your money. I think what also bugs me are the people who tell me they have visited the Dominican Republic and when I ask where, they tell me Puerta Plata or Punta Cana. Both a nice places to vacation, but trust me, they really didn’t visit the Dominican Republic. You can’t experience this country by going to a resort that is designed to cater to your vacation needs and doesn’t reflect the true character of the country.
And I knew I was in a tourist trap as soon as I asked a cabbie to take me to the resort where my uncle was staying. He overcharged me by a third – very typical of what a tourist with a presumed pocketful of cash is charged. I chastised him that “No soy un turista,” but paid the freight anyway to quickly get to the resort.
I had not seen Uncle Donald in a couple of years and while he walks slowly with the help of a cane, there is still determination in his stride and the old twinkle in his eyes. He, of course, looks like my mother, with the same kind smile and soft timbre in his voice, so I find myself looking into his face and seeing her.
My uncle recounts how he and his girlfriend, Barbara, were picked up at the airport by helicopter and whisked to the all-inclusive resort, which is so huge that vans and golf carts transport guests from location to location, and offers vacation opportunities for those on a shoestring and those to whom money is no object – from villas, to condos, to small hotel rooms to huge suites. A vacation to fit any budget. My uncle is staying in a friend’s time-share; the one-bedroom suite has a large living room and full kitchen, with a pull-out bed and separate bathroom, providing me with my own space for the overnight visit.

My mother
We eat dinner at a seafood restaurant on the ocean’s edge, but Barbara doesn’t like the food. I think the reason is that her choice – salmon – is not the deep-pink fleshed fish she recognizes from the U.S; it is a local catch with a lighter color and denser flavor that may offend some taste buds. But the company and conversation are lively and engaging.
The next morning, we sat poolside in a cabana where I offer my uncle one of my prized Cuban cigars. He had given up cigar smoking many years ago, but accepts my offer and the enjoyment that registers on his face is worth the look Barbara casts in my direction.
This was the first time Barbara and I had spent time together and I feel happy for Uncle Donald that he has her in his life. She is genuinely fond of him and he of her; they make a good couple.
Both say they want to return to the Dominican Republic sometime soon and I hope they do, providing me with a chance to show them more of the real Dominican Republic.
Perhaps Cabrera?



